"From Confusion to Clarity: An alarming threat for family."
Ties the bind from diapers to diplomas; chronicles of a parental bond.
Parenting is a responsibility that has a lot of aspects, and a wide eye on kids. Even parents are responsible for every action of their children. When a baby is born, the mother feeds him again and again. When his pamper gets dirty the mother washes him, and with the passage of time mother works on speech therapy for the baby.
The mother has a lot of responsibilities to perform for his kid. Hence in this way, the bond gets developed between parents and children. The child started trusting his mother and father for the most. Because at that time he feels that his parents can deal with his every problem. As far as when that baby grows up. As his social circle increases, he thinks that their friends are more clever and advanced as with the new trends. He started to tell his secret to their friends and share less with their parents. In the past parents had no alternatives Nowadays, children spend more time on social media and with friends.
Physical growth;
In the first few years, infants undergo rapid physical changes. They learn to crawl, sit chew, walk, and run. Motor skills develop, including grasping objects and handling eye coordination. Children continue to grow physically with noticeable changes in height, weight, and overall body structure. After infancy, school age, adolescence age. In all these aspects the mind also develops rapidly, at every age the baby thinks, feels, and expresses his feelings through their behaviors. At every stage of life, we need someone to understand us. Through these stages, parents have to play a crucial role for their children.
Emotional distance;
As the baby was born he cried for milk, that was not only a matter of hunger but crying was also proof that he had a problem that only their parents could sort out. It is an emotional bond between parents and children. Nowadays getting leisure, and quality time for family is becoming a challenge. Excessive control of children can lead to the autonomy and independence that create emotional distance. If you try to control or scold too much to your kid then there is a possibility that your child will become a rebel. Handle your child with love affection and care this is the only remedy that can heal your child's wounds. Active learning is the key to facing this alarming situation. The parent should admire that their children have their own thoughts, ideas, innovations, and directions where they want to move. As a parent always remember that you are the only one who can help your children.
When there is a mismatch between parental expectations and child choices or actions. It can create a sense of distance and disappointment. Busy schedules and competing priorities can result in limited quality time spent together. Communicate openly about goals, values, and expectations and negotiate your parameters where necessary. Because in relationships flexibility and active communication is the key to success for a healthy relationship. Acknowledge the emotions, behaviors, and silence of your child. Setting his personality as your first priority. Dismissing each other's emotions can create a barrier. Tight hug kisses a calm warm affection are very powerful remedies in this sense. Understand the behaviors of your child and keep an eye on the activities in which they are involved. Never leave your place because the other unknown strangers' person can fill that space and that would be more harmful for your children.
Build a bridge ;
Here are some key steps if you adopt these there is a possibility that you will enjoy the healthy relationship of parental bond. Always express yourself to their children. Be kind, humble, and generous. Active learning is useful in this sense. Spend quality time with your children.Always use social media for a limited time at home. Your first priority should be your children tghere emotions and choices give them a lot respect. Always negotiate your rules and regulation as to think fit about situation.Understand the feelings of others.The bossy atitude is harmful for relationships.Trust is the bedrock or base of every situation.Make strong bridges of communication between each others.No matter what the situation is from where connection breaks, you can build it again with love.Parental bond is the blessind of Allah almighty.Parent and children both are made for each other. Some times misunderstandings occurs but with the passage of time or with proper handling every thing will become settle.
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